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5 reasons why Men prefer kids who look exactly like them

A new study suggests that children who resemble their dads are healthier, but only if they’re born to single moms.

The study found that when these babies look more like their dads, they wind up healthier when they are 1 year old compared with little ones who look less like dad.

Men prefer their children to be photocopies of them, says counselling psychologist Mary Gacheru.

“It delights a man when he gets that ‘photocopy child’,” she says. “At the heart of it, that man is not certain whether a child is his or not. Because only a woman knows for sure who the father of her child is. So when he gets a child that looks exactly like him, especially if it’s a boy, then at least he can be sure that it’s his ‘work’.”

“That’s when you hear men demanding DNA. He doesn’t want those sleepless nights wondering if the child he’s raising is his.”

“For the woman, it can also be an assurance that her man won’t question or mistrust her. If the child looks like its father, there won’t be any issues that crop up later down the line. However, when the marriage is running smoothly with no issues, then it’s not such a big problem.”

The reason? Babies who are a chip off the old block tend to get more attention from their fathers during that first year, new research suggests.

“Fathers are important in raising a child, and it manifests itself in the health of the child,” Solomon Polachek, a professor of economics at Binghamton University in New York, said in a statement.

However, the study looked only at children born to single moms, so these children didn’t live with their dads — a situation in which dads tend to be more uncertain of their paternity. Children who are born to married parents who both live with them are unlikely to see this effect, because men are more certain of their parenthood and spend more time with children who live under the same roof, the researchers wrote in the study.

The findings come from a cohort of 715 babies who were part of the Fragile Families and Child Wellbeing study. Babies in the study were born to parents who were never married, and the children lived with their moms, only seeing their fathers on visits. At the time of the child’s birth, the study authors asked both parents, “Who does the baby look like?” (This is when fathers who are uncertain of their paternity usually decide whether a baby is theirs, the study authors noted.) Babies were classified as “looking like dad” if both parents noted some resemblance.

It turned out that little ones who looked like their dad spent the equivalent of 2.5 extra days per month with the child. Those extra daddy days meant the child got more adult supervision. Dads who spent time with their children were also more likely to learn about any health issues that needed to be addressed, and to know if children wanted for things like clothing, food or other necessities, the researchers suggested.

In turn, this translated to better health relative to babies who didn’t resemble dad, at least based on subjective health ratings by the parents, as well as hospital visits and asthma episodes, the study authors found.

This behavior has its roots in evolution, the researchers suggested in the study, which was published Jan. 18 in the Journal of Health Economics.

“Those fathers that perceive the baby’s resemblance to them are more certain the baby is theirs, and thus spend more time with the baby,” Polachek said.

Evolutionary theory predicts that parents will spend more time caring for children who are genetically related to them, thus upping the odds that those children grow up, have babies of their own and pass on their genes, the researchers wrote in the paper. By contrast, by evolutionary standards, “investments in unrelated children are deemed wasteful since they reduce investment in genetically related offspring.”

Originally published on Live Science.

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